I’m Seriously Starting to Hate the TERM
The acronym for Big Beautiful Woman is usually used on online dating sites, and it’s particularly ubiquitous on Craigslist…. go freaking figure! Just for fun and of course for research for this blog post I looked a couple up. Here are the ones I found today….
SWM seeking BBW to spend a good night with….
Looking for bbw who wants to pLaY all day…
Seeking Tall, Curvy BBW for…
I wonder if they think we’re all desperate. But then, it’s like their so-called attraction, is treated as some kind of sick fetish….. It’s sleazy, in the dark anonymous love. And I refuse to be silent any longer! Dating while fat has honestly become extremely hard and I can chalk it up to the stereotypes and misconceptions that plague the pl us size community. You know the ones I’m talking about. Big women are freaks. Fat girls like to cook. Plus size women will give you all of their money, take care of you hand and foot because you are a gift from god and no one else would want us. Don’t act as If I’m speaking Spanish ladies you know what I’m talking about. As a single plus size woman who is very secure with herself dating for me has become somewhat comical. Too many men have assumed that I am a meal ticket just because it looks like I eat more than enough meals lol ( Little joke) oh how sorry do they become when I accept nothing but the best and move on so fast their heads spin. Don’t get me wrong there are good guys out there of course but there are also horrible ones who for whatever reason have adopted this way of thinking
At the end of the day it just makes me think… what are other fat women doing? Are they accepting this bull crap? Someone has to be because my behavior, my unwillingness to act like a “fat girl” takes to many of them by surprise to freaking MANY! What the hell is happening here! Am I crazy? Lets chat!
Disclaimer: Corner Chats is a platform on cornerich.com where we as the plus size community can come together and talk about anything that is affecting us in today’s society. I would love for all of you to chime in and talk honestly with the understanding that this is a free safe place to be fat and effective. We must respect each other’s opinions but we don’t have to agree.