28 Things I learned before I turned 29

  Tomorrow is my birthday!!!!!  I wanted to write a long post all about the things I’ve learned but let’s be serious that would take forever. I decided to create a list instead. Reading this list out loud sent chills down my spine. Every single one ironically brought me back to that place of confusion and clarity.                                                                    I. Am.… View Post

The Perfect White Dress for the Woman who Hates Wearing White

I don’t understand the summer obsession with all white parties. The combination of perspiration, Mac NW45, Ruby woo and a godly fit just doesn’t mix to me. Like, why I “gotta” wear white? Can I just do a pearl beige? Would they let me in wearing a soft champagne? The questions I ask myself as the invitations begin rolling in.… View Post

In Need of a Little Sunshine

Hey guys………With the current state of the union uploading a blog post right now just seemed a bit trivial. As the Program Director for New Yorkers Against Gun Violence, police and community relationships has been one of the issues my department works on rigorously. Quite honestly I am emotionally exhausted and in need of some self-care. This weekend I decided… View Post

5 Reasons Why I Hate Eloquii

  1.  We have a bit of an unhealthy relationship Eloquii is like an ex-boyfriend I can’t fully get over. I’m constantly checking their Instagram, website and Facebook page to see what they’re up to. Are there support groups for this kind of behavior? 2.    It’s impossible to keep my coins. Why so many trendy pieces’ man. They have everything. Some days… View Post

Put a belt on it: The Plus Size obsession with having a visibly smaller waist.

The waist belt is an addiction. No seriously it is.  Death to the Mu Mu is a thing, not because of the awkward patterns but the silhouette. In this movement of being sexy at any size most of us believe it’s a necessity to show our ratio. Come on you know I’m not lying. The slimmer we look the more… View Post