A List of Things Fat People Shouldn’t Wear

Fat women shouldn’t wear stripes. Fat women shouldn’t wear prints, big hair,  bright colors or anything else that requires being seen. At the end of the day that’s what it’s all about, someone else’s comfortability. Look. When we reject societies standards of beauty and what’s fashionable the ones who live and die by the code can’t function.  I’m just saying… View Post

Royal Swiss Lace Giveaway   A giveaway already? Uhhh yeah! So if you are following me on snapchat username (outofthecorner)  you know I am totally obsessed with hair! Like walking pass a beauty supply store without going in feels a lot like ordering a chipotle bowl without a free “water cup,” Weird. Virgin, synthetic, mix blend, red blonde blue or… View Post

Are you Brave Enough?

Welcome to the Brave Space As an educator and community activist it’s important for me to create brave spaces. Whether in the classroom or in my relationships being able to have honest conversations is essential to designing your ideal life. I’m kind of in the plus size industry and I’ve been asked to participate in plenty of panels around being plus… View Post

Who Are We fighting?

  “When the axe entered the forest the tress said “look the handle is one of us”.       I started to write this blog post about 15 times in the last two months. I’m not sure if I stopped out of frustration or anger, whichever one it was this needs to be addressed.   I am a twenty-six… View Post

Dating While Fat

I’m Seriously Starting to Hate the TERM  “ BBW”    The acronym for Big Beautiful Woman is usually used on online dating sites, and it’s particularly ubiquitous on Craigslist….  go freaking figure! Just for fun and of course for research for this blog post I looked a couple up. Here are the ones I found today…. SWM seeking BBW to… View Post